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It’s no secret that envy and greed are the primary motives for much that occurs in our country. The sad thing is that our teenagers are often the hapless victims of these things. Teens are notoriously obsessed with name brand /expensive items or having lots of stuff without putting a proper value on possessions. So how can moms and dad cure materialistic teens?
Have them earn money for extras
Teens quickly learn that a dollar represents work and finally begin to weigh their wants and needs. Having teens do chores or earn money themselves by doing odd jobs for neighbors builds self-esteem, creativity, work ethic and an appreciation for money. Many American parents hate to see their children do without but the truth is they will not die and they will learn valuable lessons from it.
Spring Clean
At least once a year encourage teens to gather unwanted items and personally deliver them to the needy. The simple act of giving is a great lesson by itself. Watching someone’s face light up at the sight of something they take for granted helps re-focus values and reduces the nagging pull of materialism.
Be apart of the solution
Unknowingly well-meaning parents contribute to their kids love affair with things. Set the example by participating in giving and volunteer activities also try giving things without a price tag. Go to the park and pack a picnic lunch, make something for your children or have them make presents instead of purchasing them. This may take some getting used to but teens quickly get the message.
